作者  Chou9527 (9527)                                              看板  NTU
 標題  Re: [心情]為什麼讀書這麼累????????
 時間  Sun May 23 23:44:33 2010
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首先先謝謝chou9527借我帳號
                                                                               
他是我的大恩人
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
會想寫這篇主要是想給一些家庭條件不好的同學一些經驗談
                                                                               
所以內容會涉及我的家庭背景
                                                                               
但我不想曝光,所以求大家不要人肉我,拜託

首先,我是女生
                                                                               
我是阿姨養大的,她覺得什麼都是假的,只有錢才是真的
                                                                               
我很小就開始在檳榔攤工作
                                                                               
國中雖然基測分數不錯,但阿姨希望我白天能工作
                                                                               
所以高中念了夜校--所以我高中是夜校畢業的
                                                                               
進台大之後深深感覺到沒有校友的人脈真的差好多,但這是題外話
                                                                               
我快十八歲的時候就被帶到鼎鼎大名的龍亨(酒店)面試
                                                                               
我阿姨希望我從十八歲就出來賺,她說一年最少可以賺三、四百萬
                                                                               
賺到三十歲退休最少也會有三千萬
                                                                               
本來已經跟龍亨談好了十八歲生日當天就去上班
                                                                               
還被帶去市立醫院作處女膜完整的檢查(要賣初夜)
                                                                               
但我跑掉了

                                                                               
我用之前偷偷存的錢租了一個小房間,換了工作
                                                                               
開始新生活
                                                                               
對當時的我來說,念大學根本是天方夜譚
                                                                               
雖然說是念夜校,但阿姨幫我找的夜校是混文憑的地方
                                                                               
我只需要在段考那幾天去學校就可以了
                                                                               
原本應該上課的時間都在兼差賺錢
                                                                               
所以我高中時代根本就沒學到什麼東西
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
後來因為遇到一些法律糾紛,上網諮詢

                                                                               
意外認識了一位自稱律師的人(應該真的是律師)
                                                                               
他了解我的情況後不但幫我解決了我的糾紛
                                                                               
還鼓勵我念大學,說想翻身只能靠讀書
                                                                               
他帶我去重慶南路的參考書專賣店,跟我說
                                                                               
這家店的書,只要我想要他都會付錢,那天之後他不再跟我聯絡
                                                                               
兩天後書寄到了我小小的房間
                                                                               
我也辭掉了白天的工作,只留晚上的兼差(酒促)專心念書
                                                                               
之後我很幸運地考上了台大
                                                                                
                         

我進台大之後每學期都是書卷一
                                                                               
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但其實我剛進台大的時候有很深的自卑感
                                                                               
覺得自己處處不如別人
                                                                               
同學不是北一女就是雄女,實驗中學之類的名校
                                                                               
聊的也是我去了美國日本,買了什麼東西,以前學過什麼才藝
                                                                               
不然就是約下課去哪家餐廳吃飯,去哪裡玩
                                                                               
連吃飯都有問題的我根本就沒辦法融入
                                                                               
而且一開學我就面臨了一個超大難題
                                                                               
課本好貴啊~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~~
                                                                               
我的錢根本就不夠用

                                                                               
圖書館的書也被借光了
                                                                               
我的直屬學姊本來說要賣我,但發現我能出的錢跟她預期中的有落差後
                                                                               
就賣給別人了
                                                                               
因此我一開始上課有三門課一直都沒課本,錢不夠....
                                                                               
直到十月初的時候晚上打工不巧遇到大一國文的同學
                                                                               
她知道我的情況後在一個禮拜之內幫我跟她北一的學姊商借到了課本
                                                                               
解決了這個問題(台大處處有溫情啊)
                                                                               
也還好剛開學老師講得比較慢,我慢慢也就跟上進度了
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
大一上修25學分,大約十月中開始準備期中考

                                                                               
後來的經驗是太早了
                                                                               
之後大概是期中期末考前三個禮拜準備差不多
                                                                               
平常下課後就到總圖念書,還可以吹冷氣^^
                                                                               
因為我沒有電子辭典和電腦,也沒有小本的英文辭典
                                                                               
只有一本超大的劍橋辭典(律師先生買的)
                                                                               
所以也會到計中念書
                                                                               
進度是當天的內容--重要!!
                                                                               
當天聽完是印象最深刻的時候,這時候乘勝追擊真的比較不容易忘
                                                                               
就算忘了,稍微瞄一下記憶馬上就恢復了
                                                                               
然後七點多收工準備打工
                                                                               
睡前再把當天寫的筆記流覽一遍--睡覺!
                                   

而筆記是必須要每周更新的
                                                                               
一開始你一週的筆記可能有三頁-A(當週版)
                                                                               
但到了下一週,上週的筆記內容可能已經可以縮減到一頁的A'
                                                                               
而你這週又會多出這週的筆記-B(當週版)
                                                                               
此時你應該會有A(當週版),A',B(當週版)這三份筆記
                                                                               
再下週會多A'',B',C(當週版)的筆記,加上之前的共有六份,以此類推
                                                                               
所以我的筆記同樣內容會有很多版本
                                                                               
當週版經過每週的更新後,最後只會剩下一些完全刪不掉的部分,我稱之為最精簡版
                                                                               
當週版一定是最詳細的,但不一定是最完美的
                                                                               
有空的時候可以挑一個假日把他重寫成最完美版本
                                                                               
考前三個禮拜正式準備期中考,如果之前沒有最完美版本
                                                                               
這週一定要生出來,所以建議平時就要整理

準備期中考沒有別的方法,就是把之前的最完美版本筆記背熟,並且練習題目
                                                                               
同時一邊進行新的進度和最完美版本筆記+最精簡版本筆記的更新
                                                                               
練習題目時一邊要挑出重點題目
                                                                               
平常就把最精簡版本和重點題目帶在身邊,有空就看
                                                                               
考試的時候也是帶最精簡版和重點題目去學校
                                                                               
有空的時候review一遍即可,也可以減輕包包的負擔~
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
報告方面,最好是能在作業公布得當天完成它
                                                                               
如果你跟我一樣經濟拮据又想拿書卷的話,強烈建議避開分組報告
                                                                               
因為打工的時間很可能會被延宕
                                                                               
而且遇到擺爛的組員你根本沒有時間善後!

                                                                               
擺爛者拿低分是應得的,但不代表你也必須要陪他拿低分
                                                                               
而其它組員對你缺乏彈性的討論時間也不會有多少諒解
                                                                               
他們永遠不會懂我們到底需要工作到什麼地步
                                                                               
我們沒工作就看不到下一餐啊!連下個月住哪都不知道
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
報告提早完成有個好處,你有更多時間可以和老師討論
                                                                               
更加精進你的報告
                                                                               
同時也可以學到更多東西唷^^
                          

另外就是~每個月至少看一本小說或詩集(圖書館借即可)
                                                                               
讓自己暫時脫離一下現實
                                                                               
不然很快心靈就枯竭掉了
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
我大概回顧了之前的讀書時間
                                                                               
每天最少四小時
                                                                               
週末則是最少八小時
                                                                               
現在則因為經濟壓力解除了,不用工作了
                                                                               
所以每天最少六小時
                                                                               
週末現在放假不念書@@
                    

                                                                               
考前三個禮拜週末才會念書
                                                                               
但經濟壓力解除後的平均比有經濟壓力時多了五分
                                                                               
不過因為我都是第一名,所以不知道是不是別人也跟我一樣多了五分
                                                                               
但現在我有休閒活動了,以前的生活就是念書工作而已,連電影院都沒進去過
                                                                               
現在生活品質真的比較好,不知道有沒有影響念書的效率??
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
                                                                               
而不管再窮,早餐一定要吃飽飽
                                                                               
我每天早上起來一定要吃早餐,之前因為窮,所以是自己煮(現在自己煮是因為健康)
                                                                               
可以吃很飽~
                                                                               
我發現如果沒吃早餐我當天上課就會比較不能吸收,不知道是不是巧合

我是建議大家吃早餐比較好
                                                                               
中午不餓就不吃,餓就去對面的彌勒素食吃,三十元就可以吃到六分飽
                                                                               
還有甜湯跟鹹湯可以喝~真的是佛心來著
                                                                               
晚餐不吃,省錢
                                                                               
我一個月含房租大概花五千
                                                                               
如果你真的窮到不行的話
                                                                               
我建議休學,先賺到錢再復學
                                                                               
這段我也經歷過
                                                                               
我大二因為存款被盜領陷入經濟危機
                                                                               
房東也因為找到買主了,要把我趕出去
                                                                               
求助系上、導師都沒用
                                                                               
最後只能休學

不要指望別人幫你,這是最不切實際的想法
                                                                               
當時系上只叫我去找我阿姨
                                                                               
而導師則是跟我說她很忙,叫我去找系上助教
                                                                               
不過我並沒有把我的家庭情況說白,所以是我活該(??)
                                                                               
某人還叫我去交男朋友!!!!!(這不是變相賣身嗎!!)
                                                                               
我這時才發現,學校很公平~就算你是書卷一,學校也不會對你比較好
                                                                               
書卷獎金連買課本都不夠呢~
                                                                               
這時要感謝chou9527,他看到我坐在共同外面哭
                                                                               
主動來關心我,得知原委後還借我錢(這麼信任我)
                                                                               
最後還收留我直到我找到房子(謝謝chou9527媽媽和姊姊~~)
                                                                               
我是很幸運的那個
                                                                               
我這一路上也很多人說要幫我,但都是有代價的,這種人請不要理他

我阿姨跟我說過,會求代價的人絕對不會真心幫妳
                                                                               
他們只想用一點小小的利益來換取他們所想要的
                                                                               
得到之後妳的死活對他們而言一點也不重要,他們也不可能再給妳什麼了
                                                                               
我很幸運能在最危難的時候都有不求回報的人可以幫我
                                                                               
但請小心,千萬不要被人趁機占便宜
                                                                               
這個世界上有好人,同時也有壞人
                                                                               
共勉之~

 

 

 

 

 

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  • cgu love you!
  • 我阿姨跟我說過,會求代價的人絕對不會真心幫妳
    對ㄚ我得認知和妳ㄚ姨一樣
    但施教官的代價很好笑ㄟ
    她説現在每次在大賣產
    圖書館和百貨公司看到年輕夫婦帶他們小孩
    逛街時心中很不是滋味
    所以他要的代價就只是妳這個生小孩的機器
    他說自己並不會
  • 夏一夜
  • 大大借我分享一下喔!!謝謝!感恩!!